tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9173416929829483433.post9025479354705174154..comments2024-03-23T22:45:11.889-04:00Comments on Divorce in Connecticut: WHAT HAPPENED TO EVERYONE? HOW ABUSED WOMEN IN A DIVORCE END UP ISOLATED AND ALONE!Catharine Sloperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08915766638552096174noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9173416929829483433.post-13352155550490854992021-06-29T10:48:18.825-04:002021-06-29T10:48:18.825-04:00What about abused husbands being isolated and alon...What about abused husbands being isolated and alone because of corruption in the courts?Gary Gianottihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11754006118869895459noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9173416929829483433.post-64067528864904119932021-06-29T10:48:14.582-04:002021-06-29T10:48:14.582-04:00What about abused husbands being isolated and alon...What about abused husbands being isolated and alone because of corruption in the courts?Gary Gianottihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11754006118869895459noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9173416929829483433.post-18514795360129019122018-11-30T02:17:21.690-05:002018-11-30T02:17:21.690-05:00Omg please link any information close to this. th...Omg please link any information close to this. this just described my past year and finding out that I did not know my children's father and he let the double life and is just an evil evil person but he's very manipulative you can't lie to court does not care about my safety even though there is a protective order in place. It was almost treated like my fault for making things more difficult. Before I could even speak at her second court date just now he had already convinced the evaluator that fall evaluation was necessary whether he was being crazy or he asked don't know. I keep asking my lawyer how can this be legal and then she says I have no choice. But I want to refuse oh my God oh my God oh my God that you will save my life if you can help meAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16899302802426299473noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9173416929829483433.post-36810347040054929572018-11-30T02:12:40.798-05:002018-11-30T02:12:40.798-05:00Omg....I cant believe this exists. Ive been feelin...Omg....I cant believe this exists. Ive been feeling so crazy and alone. this is so accurate I feel like I can breath. I am currently going through a custody battle where he filed an ex.parte all lies got denied false police reports manipulated everyone with a double life for years. I raised my kids alone. Noe he said he did that while I was depressed lazy and addicted to my prescribed medication. He was arrested on a domestic and we just returned to court for the second.tim time. We had to go in separately as the protect protective order was in place by the time I got in there the mediator told me that he had already decided it was going to be an evaluation and refused to look at or see any of the evidence or information that I had proving that I have been trying to co-parent and he was abusive mentally extremely and I'm currently trying to fight it. He still has all of my possessions held hostage in the house if it's been 3 months since I left used to keep us prisoner there he was bringing a pedophile around my kids and only through through investigation did I find out he was a pedophile my kid's father have been molested by him for 4 years but but still prostitute himself out to him for money and actively had him involved in my kid's life email Bond email from people saying he's a liar and he has no good character and they refused to see it and are forcing me to do it. With him I'm constantly saying how can this be how can this be I don't understand it doesn't make sense his violence is on a destroy my life level he's very calculated. Now they want to force my medical records to be open to him when that's one of the things that he uses to abused me. No one seems to take domestic violence seriously unless you're getting beat up all the time or even look into claims that they might be telling complete and total lies about everything by a mother you have no idea how much reading this has made me feel empowered and like my lawyer should have told me a lot of things that I didn't know any additional information about things like this totally totally link to me I can use all the help I can Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16899302802426299473noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9173416929829483433.post-17901207334516350962017-12-15T08:48:59.308-05:002017-12-15T08:48:59.308-05:00My exact situation. He had spent twenty years buil...My exact situation. He had spent twenty years building up for the day I put all the pieces together. These are narcs, sociopaths, psychopaths. No normal healthy humans do these sick things. It is so true that I have isolated for 7 years to avoid anyone else hurting me. Family and friends do turn and we are left dumbfounded as to why. Now we know why. DHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12045845621810842051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9173416929829483433.post-89650006597995514682017-09-15T04:50:48.764-04:002017-09-15T04:50:48.764-04:00this is really nice and effective blog, i found lo...<br />this is really nice and effective blog, i found lots of information in this blog and sites for commenting is best.Very nice I like a lot of these topics... <br /><a href="http://packersmoverschennai.in/" rel="nofollow">Packers And Movers Chennai</a><br />packers and movers chennaihttp://packersmoverschennai.in/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9173416929829483433.post-51898947789565135682017-07-28T20:53:20.504-04:002017-07-28T20:53:20.504-04:00Recently partially repaired my soul from reading t...Recently partially repaired my soul from reading the Stvan vs Stvan fiasco and here we go again with a variation of the theme. I guess its true:the burned bandaged hand wobbles back to the fire..Regretfully my male gender has no shortage of these cold, calculating "victims" such a poor excuse of real men. <br />This boy needs to explore his family ties and perhaps his proud parents, if alive, should be enlightened of their fine offspring. Gratefully there are those intuitive folks in this case (and also those reporters and handful of legislators involved with the huge ongoing CT family court charade) that just have it..that God-given moral compass that removes ambiguity and brings forth truth.. So there we are..Now I can embrace the saying about "grown men cry"..perhaps with a dignified weep and a prayer..God help them for they know not what they do..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9173416929829483433.post-69813405021387792692017-07-22T16:56:59.338-04:002017-07-22T16:56:59.338-04:00So familiar. Good article!So familiar. Good article!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9173416929829483433.post-25613126265445987092017-07-22T12:40:08.334-04:002017-07-22T12:40:08.334-04:00This is a good article and topic because it is so ...This is a good article and topic because it is so true. Abusers are subtle and insidious - rarely do they violently attack unprovoked in front of witnesses - you'd addressed a truism that VAWA and DV profiteers ignore. Thanks for widening the discussion! Long before divorce the abuser has manipulated his position using standard tactics of abuse: isolation, harassment, fraud, lies and mind control. Family and friends and society in general WILL blame the victim (prey) for having been the unable to stop it - so it must have been her fault it happened.doreen ludwighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15148541217980942371noreply@blogger.com